We ran an ad last fall and had a ton of responses but none really worked for us for one reason or another. We spent a fair amount of time emailing and learning more about some of the people who responded, but I guess we didn't post enough detail about what we were looking for in our original post -- "our bad". So here we go again with a little clearer definition of what we are looking for. . ...we are looking for a guy to play with occasionally. He must be bi sexual (or very bi-curious), 50 plus years old, in relatively good shape, single or divorced and ddf. Sorry, but please do not respond if you do not fit these criteria. We are middle aged, in good shape, professional , fun to hang with and very discreet. We have had some awesome times with one other male friend in the past and found that it works best after we get to know -- and trust -- that person, so we would want to exchange some emails. After we all feel comfortable with the email exchanges we could take it to the next step and chat on the phone and then meet for a drink or cup of coffee before planning the next step. Connecting occasionally for a MM/F threesome is a very erotic experience and we are open to almost anything except pain and domination. Thanks for looking and we hope there are some guys out there that would enjoy an occasional get together and relationship of this nature.