I am a 37 yo F in a relationship with a 31 M and we would both like to find an open minded third person. We have never included another person before and are taking things at our own pace, so that should be accepted by you up front. We have jobs and families so discretion would be given as well as expected. Please read the rest of this to know exactly what we are looking for. Ideally we would both want to start with online chat. We have a few different messenger programs as well as cam and mic. This would be good for us to get to know you, as well as good for us cause we like to take pics. We'd prefer you have a cam as well. If everyone is comfortable after chatting a bit we could talk about meeting in person. If we did meet be aware that it would be play and petting only, im defininetly not comfortable enough to sleep with another person, an dont think he wants me to anyway, but we have talked a lot about playing with hands and orally. As far as what we are looking for you should be open, honest, and patient. We would like to find someone younger than us as part of our fantasy, but that doesnt mean we wouldnt consider someone the same or older. Be clean an have a face pic. Im really not interested in seeing a thousand penis pictures, and no matter how great you think it is i will not be choosing anyone souly on their package. Size doesnt matter so much, and looks are negotiable if you have a good personality. All that said, if you are still here and genuinely interested then message us back with a pic, some about yourself, and how you would handle two first timers. Btw, we are drinking, smoking, and 420 friendly